Why I’m Not in the Christmas Spirit


I will not be posting my story this week because there is something else taking over my brain right now that I have to get off my chest. Stayed tuned next week for the next installment of The Vampire and The Zombie Hunter

Every year for the past five years I have struggled to find the spirit of Christmas within myself. Each year seems to get harder but I don’t really know why. I have some thoughts on this but I don’t know the root cause of my lack of holiday cheer. This year seems to be no different. I do have a few reasons why I’m not in the Christmas Spirit as of writing this though and I am going to share some of those with you.

Up until a few days ago I didn’t know whether or not  I would have the money to buy Christmas gifts for my boys. I was really stressed out about this as I wasn’t sure if I’d even have enough to pay my bills. As luck seemed to be suddenly on my side, if only for a brief moment, I did end up paying all of my bills and still had some money leftover to give my boys another happy Christmas. You would think that that would be enough to get me in the Christmas spirit as I have gotten most of my shopping done for the holiday, but…

lovechristmas_rockinrandommomI still have to get my apartment in order. One of the best Christmas gifts I am getting this year is my sister and my niece coming to spend the holiday with me. This is the best news because since leaving Maryland, I haven’t spent a Christmas with any of my family in over 10 years and for it to be my favorite family member, I am over the moon about it! However….

Well, Friday afternoon Conner came off the bus crying his eyes out because some older kids have started bullying him again. Putting the Racist comment aside that I touched on in another post STAND FOR CHILDREN, one of those kids decided to threaten someone else with a stabbing so now my son is really afraid to ride the bus and I am absolutely FURIOUS that this is happening so I am making plans to speak with several school officials this week about this issue and about how we seem to keep ignoring it.

Then there were the terror attacks in California. 14 more people were killed in yet another terrorist attack and it sickens me. I like to stay positive because I love life and I love this beautiful planet that I live on. I love my kids and I want them to grow up in a decent world, a world much different from the awful crap I was forced to grow up with but it seems that the bad is coming here and I have to worry about what this means for my boys.

Just seeing all of the tragedy, all of the chaos over the past year has taken it’s toll on me. Make no mistake, I am a fighter and will fight with everything I have in me if it comes down to it! I will protect my kids because that’s what I do. Every generation has it’s problems and terrorism seems to be ours. However, it isn’t fear that has me down in the dumps. It’s the hate! All of this hate that has been going around and seems to be getting worse is the thing that keeps me from feeling the Christmas Spirit.

I’ve gotten over my anger at the world for all of the wrongs done to me by people who were supposed to take care of me and love me. I’ve moved on from the hate and because of this, it hurts me to see everyone else in so much pain. The world is angry! The world is hurting and I feel a bit helpless in it all.christmasjoy_rockinrandommom

Yet, when I drive through town at night, there are barely any house lighting up the darkness with the beautiful twinkly lights that make me feel like I’m in a wonderland of glowing warmth. Yeah, the stores are decked out for Christmas but I haven’t felt like playing Christmas music in my car for the entire month and I haven’t watched any Christmas movies or even decorated yet.

With all of the sadness in the world today, I’m finding it difficult to enjoy my second favorite holiday but this weekend I plan to decorate and put up my tree. Maybe once I do that, I will start baking the cookies with my kids then I will want to enjoy the holiday and put off the bad feeling I’ve been having in my gut for the past three months.

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7 thoughts on “Why I’m Not in the Christmas Spirit

  1. I know what you mean, with all the hate in the world at the minute, it’s hard to feel Christmassy. The terrorists attacks in a way though make me more determined to make Christmas bigger and better than before. To stick the middle finger up at the haters and let them see they haven’t won – that love and positivity will ultimately triumph over hatred!
    Thanks for linking up to #AnythingGoes

  2. You will definitely turn things around Michelle.

    I know there is too many bad things going around and our faith, happiness and freedom is constantly tested. But we are extremely lucky to be in some great situation we are in and get to do the things we love doing.

    I am not much of a Christmas person myself or any other holidays but I enjoy them because I see the kind of spark it brings to the eyes of my loved ones…

    You take care.
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    1. Thank you Adam! I am hanging on for my kids and I am getting to see my sister this year which I am overjoyed about so you are right. In times like these we are tested and it’s how we choose to handle ourselves that builds our character. Thanks so much for stopping by!😊

  3. I really love Christmas and always have, but I do agree that it can be more difficult when problems and stresses are overshadowing everything. I hope that things improve and you do end up enjoying the holidays. #anythinggoes
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    1. Thank you! I am trying to move past the stress for my kids and I do think that once I have the decorations up I will start to feel better. Thanks so much for stopping by:-)

  4. I am also a Christmas person and its not my favorite holiday I don’t know why. Last year bought a tree because my daughter she is the mos cheerful person I know mind you her daddy is Muslim so I am more of an Atheist but I let her celebrate anything she wants until she decides other. You are right there is too much bad things happening in the world #anythinggoes

    1. Yes there is and it’s been hard to get myself into the spirit. I am very much a Christmas person but these past few years have been rough. I will get myself there for my kids and hopefully turn things around. Thanks so much for stopping by!😉

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